Little is more powerful than the words from someone who has experienced an abortion. As you read; you may hear yourself in their words.

“I cried all the way through the abortion – they told me to be quiet. I felt alone and terrified and regretted my decision from the first moment.”

“My abortion is the deepest secret in my life. I guard it and constantly re-bury it so that no one will ever find out.”

“Abortions are secret affairs – you don’t share them with anybody because of your fear, shame and pain – who can possibly understand?”

“I can’t stop judging myself – I knew what I was doing but convinced myself that having the abortion was the best thing. I wish I could go back and undo what I’ve done.”

“I’m angry at the lack of information given.” Why wouldn’t they tell you the possible risks involved?”

“I’m consumed with both grief and anger. I don’t know how to get past this.”

“My biggest fear of being alone happened. My boyfriend insisted on an abortion and told me he’d be there no matter what. The day after the abortion he left and he hasn’t come back since.”

“Part of me died on that table and regret goes beyond any words.”

“When she told me she was pregnant, that was the last thing on earth I wanted. I arranged for the abortion and told her it was the only thing to do and that I’d stick by her. We broke up shortly after the abortion and now all I can think about is that I should be a father – raising my child – I’m not and I did it to myself.”

“I begged her not to have the abortion. I wanted my child; I wanted to be given the chance to be a dad and to raise that baby. I’m angry and hurt and I don’t know when the feelings will get better.”